With all of our imperfections, we begin and end each day at the foot of the cross. It is here where our story begins and we pray it is where it will end. "Jesus said: Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart; and you will find rest for yourselves. For my yoke is easy, and my burden light." ~Matthew 11:28-30~
Listen to God's voice at the foot of the crucifix." ~St. Gaspar del Bufaro~
Read and Reflect upon John 3:16 and St. Sylvester. It's the last day of the year so we will pause to be thankful for God's greatest gift of salvation, through the birth and death of His only Son. We are also grateful for personal blessings received throughout the year, including the challenges that are inevitable gifts. Discussion: What are we most grateful for this year? What difficult things have we experienced that have helped us grow closer to God?
Respond: It is a New Year's Eve tradition in our family that we rotate through our Parish 24 hour Adoration. It is the perfect way to pause and return thanks to God as we express our love to Him, ringing in a new calendar year.
Prayer: For the adults and older children, there are beautiful meditations and prayers in the Magnificat that are perfect for the Adoration Vigil, concluding with this prayer: (Note: Magnificat has a wonderful Iphone/Smartphone App...I believe it's still free for a trial period:)
"I waited, I waited for the Lord, and he stooped down to me...He put a new song into my mouth."~Psalm 40:2,4~
Read and Reflect: upon Mary as the Mother of God. Read Luke 1:38 when Mary proclaimed her "Yes" to God: "Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word. Discussion: In what ways can we renew our own "Yes" to God as we enter this New Year? In what ways can we renew our faith?
How can we have the faith of a little child?
"Mommy, last night I dreamed about Mary and Joseph and baby Jesus and ALL the angels..."
My response: "Wow, Mommy would love to have a dream like that!"
Reflect and Read the Nativity of the Lord, as a family, from the Gospels (Matthew 1 and 2 or Luke 1 and 2) We will be following a long with the beautifully illustrated picture book, The Nativity. The focus of our discussion will be the angels and shepherds. The angels first proclaimed the Good News and the shepherds made haste, or rushed in from the hills, to see God's promise fulfilled with the birth of the Messiah.
Discussion questions: How can we be heralds of the Gospel?; Have we seen God's glory in our own lives?; In what ways can we rejoice with the angels: "Let the heavens be glad and the earth rejoice!"~Psalm 96~ How can we move closer to the Lord, keeping the shepherds in mind:"The shepherds went in haste, and found Mary and Joseph and the Infant lying in the manger."~Luke 2:16~
Respond: Make an angel craft AND a Gingerbread Manger. We used this Usborne book as our guide for this hand print angel art.
Angel Baby in action...
I am not a "messy Mom" so I always have to relinquish my desire to keep things neat and clean. This is a struggle for me and something I always have to work at!
The end results are usually worth it when hands and faces (and sometimes hair) are all cleaned up!
(Especially when art project turn out so cute:)
The older kids worked on this Gingerbread Manger with Dad:) Yep, I admit we bought the 'cheater' supplies so it was pretty effortless.
The Claydough Nativity set can be found online here. By the way, mine came in a nice plastic encasement for storage and protection...That makes the price a little more bearable. Plus, they sure are cute!
As I've mentioned before, Dad is pretty good at this stuff:) He wanted to create a humble and simple manger, without any gumdrops on the roof. You know what that means? More candies from the kit for the kids to eat right away:)
As you can see, they used Nutella for the frosting on the Gingerbread Manger....YUM. "Somebody" got a fun sampling of the Nutella:)
We browned some coconut for the manger hay and this is the finished project, mostly edible! (Except for the claydough figures of course)
Today we also decorated our white Christ candle that we light each night during the Christmas season. It was simple to add some Nativity stickers and glitter.
Our parish bulletin had a nightly Christmas table blessing that I Mod Podged to the back of the candle for easy prayer access!
Just in case you are wondering if we are some "holy family", think again! I always like to point out that we are not perfect by any means. Striving for holiness is something we take to heart but we certainly have a long journey ahead with routine struggles:) For example, we no sooner get done with our pleasant angel discussion tonight and our 3 year old Angel Baby yells out from her bedroom: "MOM! My jammie drawer is all jacked up!" Well, it certainly wasn't a 'sweet as an angel' exclamation but I got a good chuckle anyway ...Hmmm, wonder where she heard that one? Time for nightly Guardian Angel prayers!
**Dad and 2 older boys are serving dinner at a local homeless shelter with our Parish Youth Group. Praying this makes up for a few of our imperfections*wink*
Day 6: December 30th
Feast of the Holy Family
Reflect upon Jesus living a real human life with a Mother and Father chosen by God. Discuss how our parents were chosen by God to raise and care for us. How can we follow the example of Jesus as a child? How can we follow the example of St. Mary and St. Joseph as parents?
Read the Letter of St. Paul to the Colossians 3:12-21. Discuss how we can treat eachother as St. Paul writes to the Colossians.
Respond: Do something together as a family today, even if it's just sitting down for a meal. Today our Dad will be gone to work so the rest of us plan on attending daily Mass and getting donuts afterwards. Didn't the Holy Family eat donuts? OK, maybe not...But it's still a real treat for us:)
Three of our children served daily Mass for the Feast of the Holy Family. Army Dude helped Father T. give us all a good dousing of Holy Water for a blessing...Sure beats a shower!
Our activity will be picking the name of a family member from a hat. We will spend a little time writing about the great qualities of that person and why we love them. The letters will be read in the evening around dinner or prayer. Dad can e-mail us his letter from work!
Pray for all families, including those from our Christmas cards started earlier in the week.
"God and Father of all, you gave us the Holy Family to serve as an example of love and obedience. Grant to all people, in family homes or alone, the grace to hold in honor the bonds of love and respect which bind the human race chosen for adoption as your children, through Jesus Christ your Son, our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.
~Magnificat Morning Prayer~
Christmas Devotion to the Holy Family
Jesus, Mary, and Joseph,
From the heavenly household on high
Look upon all earthly households today,
Pray for us!
You were not welcome in Bethlehem;
Embrace those rejected by the world.
Pray for us!
You were sheltered in a stable;
Protect those who have no home.
Pray for us!
You heard the angels' song;
Sing to us of heaven's joy.
Pray for us!
You faithfully observed the divine law;
Show us how to do the will of God.
Pray for us!
Protected and guided by St. Joseph,
Pray for us!
Cared for, looked after by Holy Mary,
Pray for us!
Fulfilled by the Presence of Christ,
Pray for us!
Be our strength in life,
Be our hope in the hour of death.
Pray for us. Amen.
The family is a school which enables men and women to grow to the full measure of their humanity...
" O God, who in the Holy Family left us a perfect model of family life lived in faith and obedience to your will, help us to be examples of faith and love for your commandments."~Pope Benedict XVI~
(I know this is kind of a goofy picture but I guess we're just dorks that way:)
On the 12 days of Christmas, my true love gave to me...
A plan for our family!
My husband and I sat down together this year to make a family plan for celebrating the 12 days of Christmas. (We decided to go beyond the Octave, or eight days, of Christmas and "go for the gusto"...all 12 "plus some" to include the Epiphany proper:) Either way, it was fun to share our goals to keep our Catholic faith burning and churning through the rhythm of the liturgical wheel, into the New Year. I thought we'd share what we have planned so far! [Please note...This year,(2011) the Christmas season "officially" lasts 16 days plus an evening. If you want to get the low-down, The National Catholic Register has a great article to explain the count!]
We incorporated family reflection or discussion topics with ways to respond and an evening prayer as we light our white Christ candle in the center of our Advent wreath.
DAY 1: (December 25th)
It's Christmas Day~Rejoice!
Read and reflectupon God as love coming as a baby, a Messiah, a promise to His people. God loves us so much that he wants us to be happy with Him forever; knowing, loving and serving Him. Respond: We express our charity by placing baby Jesus in the manger, exchanging gifts, and celebrating Christ's birth. "When are we most happy? When we do that for which we are made"~Archbishop Fulton Sheen~ Pray: We pray for all of our family and friends to know God's love.
DAY 2: (December 26th)
It's the Feast of St. Stephen, the church's first martyr.
Read and reflect(Acts 6 and 7) on St. Stephen. Being one of the church's first deacons, ordained by Jesus himself, Stephen was given the task of helping care for the poor. It was fun to discuss the story of King Winceslas and his connection to the Feast of St. Stephen and the Christmas Carol:)
~Resources for our reading and prayer~
Respond: As we clean spaces and make room from gifts and new toys received, spend time this day gathering toys and clothes for a local shelter. We gathered a loot and still working on more to take to our local shelter on Thursday! Pray for those who are persecuted in other parts of the world, for those physically and spiritually poor, and for those who care for them.
DAY 3: (December 27th)
Feast of John the Apostle & Evangelist
Read and reflect on St. John through the Gospel and letters attributed to him. The more we read the Bible, the more it becomes a part of our way of thinking and living. St. John's message is the central them of the teachings of Christ: "Love one another." Respond: As an act of love, gather up all of our Christmas cards and place them in a basket. Choose one at random each evening to read at dinnertime. Explain how we know them and how they have blessed our lives. This feast day is also a day of reconciliation. In 1983, it was the day that Pope John Paul II reconciled with the man who tried to assassinate him. Resolve to take an opportunity during these Christmas days to reach out to an estranged family member or friend, even if it's just sending an e-mail. If there is no reconciliations to be made there are always reconnections to strive for! I have a list of people who I need to reconnect with:) Pray for all of those in our basket...One of the children thought of putting together a litany prayer with all of the names of people who sent us Christmas cards...great idea! We'll see how it goes:) We will also pray for the intercession of St. John for reconciliations and forgiveness.
"Bridge building is costly, as the Cross demonstrates, but the people stranded on both banks are all freed by the bridge."-Magnificat 10/6-
DAY 4: (December 28th)
Feast of the Holy Innocents
Read and reflect upon the Holy Innocents (Gospel of Matthew and Saints for Young Readers) when King Herod sent his soldiers to kill all male babies in Bethlehem under the age of two, in the hopes of killing the Messiah among them. These little children are honored today by the Church as martyrs and are called the Holy Innocents. Good Resource: Word on Fire Respond: Make Baby Jesus Rolls! I found this cute idea over at Catholic Missionary Family.
Pray for those who abuse and neglect children. We can also ask the Holy Innocents to intercede our prayers for the protection of all children from harm and to change the hearts of those who promote abortion.
~We pray this list may be helpful to others...More days to come!~ Ideas adapted from this great article at U.S. Catholic
Daily Prayer for Christmastime Lord Jesus, God from God, Guide my every thought today. Heaven and earth, rejoice! Lord Jesus, my Redeemer, Let my lips speak only your word. Heaven and earth, rejoice! Lord Jesus, my King, Fill my deeds today with your love. Heaven and earth, rejoice!
Baby Jesus is in the manger, gifts are opened and the house is finally cleaned up but "Hallelujah", Christmas isn't over! We don't touch our decorations until after the 12th day of Christmas, the Epiphany. I just love the 12 days of the Christmas Season so I can finally breathe a little easier and enjoy. The schedule is still a little lighter, a long with money in the bank, so there's certainly more time around the house to listen to Christmas music, reflect on our Advent journeys and focus a little more on the Christmas story.
It is said that the Twelve Days of Christmas song lyrics were written as a catechism song to help young Catholics learn their faith, at a time when practicing Catholicism was discouraged in England (1558 until 1829). One article I found suggests that the song was written by English Jesuits during the 16th century.
I just love the symbolism and meaning to share with my children as we enjoy the
12 Days of Christmas this week.
We are reading this book with beautiful illustrations from the traditional song.
Then we are comparing the book and traditional song with the real meaning that I have compiled below here from what I have read and added my own images.
The Twelve Days of Christmas” as a Catechism Song
The "12 Days of Christmas" song gifts are hidden meanings to the teachings of the faith. The "true love" mentioned in the song doesn't refer to an earthly suitor, it refers to God Himself. The "me" who receives the presents refers to every baptized person. The partridge in a pear tree is Jesus Christ, the Son of God. In the song, Christ is symbolically presented as a mother partridge which feigns injury to decoy predators from her helpless nestlings, much in memory of the expression of Christ's sadness over the fate of Jerusalem: "Jerusalem! Jerusalem! How often would I have sheltered thee under my wings, as a hen does her chicks, but thou wouldst not have it so..."
December 25: A Partridge in a pear tree …….. Jesus.
December 26: Two Turtle Doves …….. The Old and New Testaments.
December 27: Three French Hens ……. The three theological virtues – faith, hope and charity.
December 28: Four Calling Birds ……. The four Gospels and/or the Four Evangelists:
~Matthew, Mark, Luke and John~
December 29: Five Gold Rings …… The Pentateuch, the first five books of the Old Testament, giving the history of man's fall from grace.
December 30: Six Geese a-Laying …. The six days of Creation.
December 31: Seven Swans a-Swimming ….. Seven gifts of the Holy Spirit (piety, fortitude, knowledge, understanding, counsel, fear of the Lord, wisdom). Also it can help us remember the seven Sacraments: Baptism, Confirmation, Reconciliation, Matrimony, Holy Orders and Anointing of the Sick.
January 1: Eight Maids a-Milking …… The Eight Beatitudes – a set of eight blessings contained in the Sermon on the Mount in the Gospel of Matthew. Four beatitudes also appear in the Sermon on the Plain in the Gospel of Luke, where they are contrasted with four woes.
January 2: Nine Ladies Dancing ……. Nine Fruits of the Holy Spirit - But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. – Galatians 5:22-31.
January 3: Ten Lords a-Leaping…… The Ten Commandments.
January 4: Eleven Pipers Piping….. The eleven faithful Apostles.
January 5: Twelve Drummers Drumming …… The twelve points of doctrine in the Apostles’ Creed.
From the Hours of Catherine of Cleves, ca. 1440. The border shows the legend of the composition of the Apostles' Creed, according to which the Twelve, before dispersing thoughout the world to preach the Gospel, composed the Creed as a sure rule of the Faith, each of them contributing one of the twelve articles. In the center is depicted the legend of the Ten Thousand Martyrs, represented here symbolically by only ten figures.
"Regardless of whether this tale is made up of both fact and fiction, hopefully it will be accepted in the spirit it was written. As an encouragement to people to keep their faith alive, when it is easy, and when any outward expressions of their faith could mean their life. Today there are still people living under similar conditions, may this tale give them courage, and determination to use any creative means at their disposal to keep their faith alive."
This was a highlight to my day...Singing in celebration of Our Lord's birth.
I know there are so many cute ideas for making birthday cakes for Jesus out there, so thought I'd share this cupcake idea...We made red velvet cupcakes and found these little plastic Nativity figures at our local cake decorating supply store. However, I noticed they can also be found online, if you care to order for next year:) They were the perfect size for cupcakes! The Star of Bethlehem cupcake toppers were found at the cake supply store as well. I peeked around a bit online but couldn't find them. I'm holding on to these so we can re-use them next year!
Praying your faith was renewed, like mine, in the JOY of this wondrous day:)
(Dad was on duty at the Fire Department. We missed him... but he was with us in spirit:) ~Merry Christmas~
The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light; upon those who dwelt in the land of gloom a light has shone. You have brought them abundant joy and great rejoicing ~Isaiah 9:1-3~
Lord Jesus, let the light you bring to the world help us see the joy that surrounds us and appreciate all the blessings that you have given to us throughout the year. (Source: Magnificat Advent Companion)
Source: Catholic Heritage Curricula "My Christmas wish for you is that, when you make your nativity scenes, you imagine you are saying to Jesus: come into my life and I will listen to you always." ~Pope Benedict XVI~ This quote came from a neat article~ Pope Benedict XVI's Christmas message to children: (I printed it out and read it to my kids:) Be sure to visit the Amazing Catechist for the Pope's 3 Christmas Wishes...Loved it! (Printed that one too:)