Listen to God's voice at the foot of the crucifix." ~St. Gaspar del Bufaro~

Monday, August 15, 2016

Dreaming of Heaven

I love the feast days of the church...The days to really hone in on what anchors us.  These days give us the opportunity to celebrate the real warriors of faith, gone before us to teach us how to survive this life.  Today is one of those days.  Go figure, it comes at a time when I needed it most.  God is good!

Being crushed by the mystery of what has happened to our family, I woke up crying this morning.  I sobbed in bewilderment about why we weren't worth fighting for.  Feeling a deep punch to my gut as I wondered about the ripple effects of decisions beyond my control, I spun with confusion.  Knowing I will never truly understand what has transpired, I questioned how on earth I will do this life now? Momentarily, I felt abandoned and terribly alone.
Photo taken back in March-St. Mary's Our Lady of Fatima

Suddenly, a glimpse of heaven shined through a holy mother...The Mother Christ gave us Himself.  She's our Mother, your Mother, my Mother...She did this life, just like us.  She walked a road of suffering and agony, continuing to say Yes to God from the 1st day He asked her to bear His son, to the last day He took her to heaven.  How glorious that day must have been for her...To finally be at peace forever, with the Holy Trinity. 


This feast day of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary is a perfect reminder.

I'm dreaming of that. 
I'm dreaming of heaven...

Not in a morbid way but with great excitement for the ultimate goal.  It actually fuels me to keep moving forward, to keep going on this sojourn.  No matter how painful it is, I know I am not alone and there's much splendor and happiness to look forward to.
Dreaming of heaven gives me the strength to keep teaching the faith in our home, even as a single mother.  A prayer life and rhythm of the church year are still alive here. 

I vow to keep the light on.

We are still a family, bound together by love that can never be discarded. Humans can discard humans but you can't ditch God's love. Hope may dim on our dark and sorrowful days but it can always be rekindled.  Days such as this are a beautiful reminder that good things always come with our eyes fixed on heaven. 

What a day to celebrate! 
I huddled with my children around the kitchen sink this morning, before they left for school, and we prayed for our Mother to give us strength like hers.  Like birds taking shelter in a storm, it may have been a desperate plea but prayer just the same.  May she always keep us close to her Son, Jesus Christ...The heavenly host and true love of our lives.
Our Lady's love is like a limpid stream that has its source in the Eternal Fountains, quenches the thirst of all, can never be drained, and ever flows back to its Source.
~Blessed Margaret Bourgeoys~


9 comments:

  1. Ugh. This one is making me choke up. The raw emotion you share, the vast feelings of abandonment and bewilderment, and yet you portray such deeper depths of faith and hope. I wish I could give you a hug, Tiffany. You are an amazing mother to your children and daughter of God. May Mary continue to wrap you and the kids in her mantle of love. God bless you!

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    1. I could use lots of hugs my friend...I feel yours across the miles. Right back at ya and THANK you for staying in touch. Love and blessings!

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  2. ~hugs~ Beautiful, beautiful words, Tiffany. And that photo of our Our Lady of Fatima is gorgeous!

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    1. Like I told Patty, thank you for the hugs AND continued prayers. I have no doubt they are sustaining me. Yes, we are so blessed with this beautiful grotto!

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  3. You are a beautiful Mom and writer! I love your breakfast dish decorated with our assumed Mother. Even through your pain and suffering, I love how you continue to rely on your faith and Mary's love through your trials and triumphs. May God and our Blessed Mother continue to wrap you in their loving arms always!

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    1. Thank you so much for your encouragement, Tracy! You are a beautiful Mom, yourself, with a loving and giving heart. Thank you for sharing that with me and for continued prayers!

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  4. You are a beautiful Mom and writer! I love your breakfast dish decorated with our assumed Mother. Even through your pain and suffering, I love how you continue to rely on your faith and Mary's love through your trials and triumphs. May God and our Blessed Mother continue to wrap you in their loving arms always!

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  5. Miss seeing your wisdom and faith, Tiff. We can't see the bigger picture; we can but say yes to what is in front of us. And through you kids (or through some stranger who might glance at your faith words) God can form a thing of beauty.

    Don't ever think you've failed. You tried; you trusted, and now you're letting God do His part. Always look forward. The past is the past, and good or bad cannot be changed. I firmly believe that He makes all things good --- even my failures. And I trust.

    And I trust you do also.

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    1. You are always such a graceful and gentle breeze from the spirit, just when I need it, Tom. Thank you for your spiritual wisdom and encouragement. Yes, I'm trusting in all things right now...It's the only right choice. God bless you!

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