Listen to God's voice at the foot of the crucifix." ~St. Gaspar del Bufaro~

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

St. Lucia Day~Our First!

Happy Feast of St. Lucia!

This was our first day really celebrating this feast day, beyond reading the story of this lovely saint.  We thought it was "high time" to honor St. Lucy since she picked our family this year through the Saint Generator.  We have been praying for her intercession all year and now we finally got to celebrate her feast day!
The girls had fun dressing up!  
We had these angel gowns in the closet that they use for our annual Nativity Posada on Christmas Eve.  For those who may not know, the white dress symbolizes St. Lucy's purity and the red sash is for her martyrdom.  In Swedish tradition, the oldest daughter usually wears the red sash but angel baby insisted on having one too!
We enjoyed learning more about St. Lucy and the Swedish tradition behind this celebration.  My Brother-in-law, married to one of my sisters, is from Sweden.  The kids enjoyed having the connection to Uncle Mark and his home country as we read the story.  The funny thing is that St. Lucy wasn't even from Sweden, she was from Sicily!  But as the Swedish story goes, it was through St. Lucy's intercession that many Swedish families (in the Southern region) were saved from a great famine.

It is part of Swedish celebrations that the oldest girl and (sister)s serve special cross-shaped sweet buns called Lussekatter, or "cat buns."  The Cross symbolizes that St. Lucy gave her life to Jesus and became a bride of Christ.  Hence, the oldest girl is also dressed as the "Lucia Bride, " in all of her purity.
We didn't plan quite well enough to do the cat buns, so we substituted with scones placed in the shape of a cross... And sprinkled with white powdered "purity" sugar:)

Oh and the "cat buns" also symbolized the wheat that St. Lucy brought to the Swedish people during the famine.
Boys of the family often wear cone-shaped hats, which are called star-boy hats.  Sadly, the boys in our family weren't interested in making the hats:(
Instead, the girls were thrilled to make St. Lucy wreaths for their heads!
Supplies:
Dollar Tree 15" wreaths
Red berries to symbolize the Swedish lingonberries
Red satin ribbon

*It was my "plan" to hot glue these candles to the top of the wreath, 
(Just for looks, and not to really light of course)*
Plan FAILED as candles were too heavy!
~Oh well, the girls wore pretty head wreaths with no candles~
It was said that St. Lucy visited Christians hiding in the catacombs.  In order to keep her hands free to carry the food she brought them, she wore candles on her head.  Her name, Lucia, also comes from the Latin word for "light."
I can't say enough about this book, "Lucia, Saint of Light."  It was a great resource and delightful story for St. Lucy rookies like us:)  
Other great sources:
Catholic Cuisine
Paper Dali
O Night Divine
"Saint Lucy, you did not hide your light under a basket, but let it shine for the whole world, for all the centuries to see.  We may not suffer torture in our lives the way you did, but we are still called to let the light of our Christianity illumine our daily lives.  Please help us to have the courage to bring our Christianity into our work, our recreation, our relationships, our conversation--every corner of our day. Amen"

Monday, December 12, 2011

Mary's Mantle Lantern

The Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe
+2011+
Mary's Mantle Lanterns For Our Mantel

This feast day always brings me peace, right when I need it the most during Advent!  
The words that Our Lady spoke to Juan Diego go ringing in my ears...
"Let nothing discourage you, nothing depress you.  Let nothing alter your hear or your countenance.  Also, do not fear any illness or vexation, anxiety or pain.  Am I not here who am your Mother?"

I designed this little craft...Mary's Mantle for our Mantel so that we may be reminded that our Mother is always with us, lighting the way.  Is there anything else that we need?

Supplies:
Empty household jar(s)
Blue or white acrylic paint, depending on Mary's mantle that you choose!
Gold paint pen
Foil star stickers
Gold ribbon
*Votive candles (wax or electric flameless)
*The L.E.D. flameless electronic votives work great if the kids want to keep the Mantle Lanterns in their rooms*
5 Easy Steps
Step 1.
Draw mantle opening with gold paint pen
Step 2.
Place star stickers all around the jar
Step 3.
Gently paint over the jar with choice of paint.
(Best results come when the paint is not too thick)
*We thought the white was fitting for the Immaculate Conception or Our Lady of Fatima*
Step 4.
When paint is completely dray, peel off the start stickers.
This will leave the holes for the light to shine through...
You may have to touch up the shaping of the stars with a thin knife or scraping tool.
Step 5.
Tie on gold ribbon and place votive light in the lantern.
The is the glow of an L.E.D votive.
(Got these at Hobby Lobby)

We followed the same steps for Mary's Mantle Lantern in blue for today's feast day...And we used real votive candles.
These were my favorite...the blue color turned out so pretty:)
We are enjoying Mary's Mantle Lanterns on our Advent fireplace mantel.
They also work well for tomorrow's feast day for St. Lucy, who was known to journey around Sicily clothed in a blue star-spangled mantle.
Oh, and we snacked on these patriotic Mary's Mantle Hershey's kisses while we worked:)
Happy 3rd week of Advent!
"Precious Flower of Tepeyac, Mother of the Americas, you chose among your people a native of our land, a most humble and dignified man to carry your word and bear your imprint.  Splendid Mother, teach me how to be deserving of your mercy. Grant me the humility and faith of my brother Juan, so that I, too, might hear your gentle voice calling me."

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Who Is Mary To Me?

+Happy Feast of the Immaculate Conception+

Hooray!
 It's a day full of grace as we celebrate Mary's pure conception in St. Anne's womb.  Conceived without sin, Mary was God's gift to the universe.  It is she who who leads all of us closer to her Son, if only we look for her graceful guidance.  I am especially grateful to celebrate this holy day whereas God's favor was given to us, even when we have least deserved it.  
Mary is the gift that keeps on giving:)
Can I tell you how much I love this necklace?
I couldn't resist this beautiful creation by Trendy Traditions!

I always like to take an opportunity to point out that I am nobody.  Despite what this blog displays, I am imperfect and struggle like the rest of the faithful to be right with God.  My simple promise to God is to keep trying.  I will never give up like I once was tempted to do.  I will persevere in the name of the Lord, with His most Holy Mother steering me in the right direction.  Hence this holy day always gives me jubilant hope.  Our heavenly Mother is always there for us.  She is never late, never wavering, never hidden. She is waiting for each of us to grab her hand and go to Jesus.  "Let's Go," I say!

On this journey, Mary has guided me through the latter part of my own Motherhood. I truly believe God gave us children so that we may practice humility.  Mary, once again, is the perfect model for humility. I always say that my children may break me down but they also make me stronger...They never fail to inspire me.  
For a writing and reflecting assignment, in honor of today's holy day, I asked each child to sit down and write on this topic: (I also challenged our "adult" child with this same reflection, with or without writing it down;)
Who Is Mary To Me?
(I just had to share their sweet responses...don't think I could have said things better myself!)

3 yo:  "Mary is baby Jesus' Mommy"


7 yo:

9 yo:

12 yo:
It is my deepest prayer that my children always stay close to Our Lady.  Through their life's inevitable trials, she will always be a sure ticket to the Savior.
"Mother of all mothers" (love that:), please pray for us!

Links from the archives:
Grotto Globe Craft 
(Our Lady appeared to St. Bernadette saying: "I am the Immaculate Conception")
Mary Did You Know? Sung by our dear friend from church:)


Last but not least, I got the biggest kick out of this video today!

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Celebrating the Feast of St. Nicholas~10 Simple Ideas!

The Feast of St. Nicholas has become a well-loved celebration in our home!  The real person behind Santa Claus always warms our hearts, especially mine:)  The true kindness and generosity that St. Nicholas represents gives purpose and truth to our Advent journey and life of faith.  Here was a real man who was wealthy beyond measure and he chose to give it all away.  Oh how I would love to do that!  I always get carried away with the desire to do big things like St. Nicholas was able to do.  But wait, we're just the working poor with barely enough income to provide for our family.  How are we to do such things?  I always have to remind myself that maybe we can still be like St. Nicholas (and other saints too) in small ways...maybe kinder words to my children, a note to someone in need or a smile to a stranger...Regardless, I enjoy the little jump-start that St. Nicholas provides to my heart and that of my family's in this second week of our Advent season... 
Dear sweet St. Nicholas, thank you for leading us to closer to Bethlehem!

Here are 10 simple ways to celebrate the JOY of this marvelous Saint!

1.  Holy Mass

2.  Celebrating the tradition of giving gold coins in shoes, just as St. Nicholas gave to those in need...
This year our children received the Playmobil St. Nicholas figures and the Nativity set to share:)  I think the price has gone up on Amazon for the St. Nicholas toys.  I believe we only paid $3.99 when I ordered back in October.  It might be worth the wait to order them off-season or check at the Playmobil site directly.
I found these "arms crossed in prayer" candy canes at Cost Plus World Market.  They don't take the place of our Bishop's Crozier Candy Canes but I thought they were perfect for Advent, just like Lent!

3. Giving in the spirit of St. Nicholas...This year we wrote cards for the troops: Holiday Mail for Heroes, sponsored by the American Red Cross.  It's not too late to participate...Cards must be post marked by December 9th.

4. Crafting St. Nicholas...
We just printed these St. Nicholas Roll-Ups from the (generous) St. Nicholas Center, colored, and stapled to toilet paper tubes~Easy peasie!  We have our eye on some other neat St. Nicholas figures to make next year:)  The St. Nicholas Center really has everything you need to celebrate this great saint!

5. Feasting in honor of St. Nicholas...This was our 2nd Annual Mighty Miter cake!  I posted directions over at Catholic Cuisine where you will find many other feasting ideas.
Dear husband has the patience for the precision cuts...This is his "baby":0
I tease that being a cake decorator might be his 2nd calling:)  I'm sure the guys at the fire department would have fun with that!

6. Reading about St. Nicholas...
The Saint Who Became Santa Claus is one of my favorites a long with The Miracle of Saint Nicholas...LOVE this story!  Once again, the St. Nicholas Center has a great list!  We hope to check our library for some of the ones on their list.

7. Pray for the intercession of St. Nicholas...
"God, our Father, We pray that through the intercession of St. Nicholas You will protect our children.  Keep them safe from harm and help them grow and become worthy of Your sight.  Give them strength to keep their Faith in You, and to keep alive their joy in Your creation.  Through Jesus Christ Our Lord. Amen."

8. Blessing of  Candy Canes (St. Nicholas Croziers) from the St. Nicholas Center...



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St Nicholas Center


by Edward Hays

Good St. Nicholas, we honor you
on this your holy feast day.
We rejoice that you are the patron saint
and the holy symbol of joy
for many peoples of many lands.
Come, great-hearted saint,
and be our patron and companion
as we, once again, prepare our homes and hearts
for the great feast of Christmas,
the birth of the Eternal Blessing, Jesus Christ.
May these sweets, these candy canes,
be a sign of Advent joy for us.
May these candy canes,
shaped just like your Bishop's staff,
be for us a sign of your benevolent care.
We rejoice that you are the holy bringer of gifts
and that so many have been delighted
through your great generosity.
Help us to be as generous of heart.
Wherever these candy canes are hung,
on tree or wall or door,
may they carry with them
the bright blessing of God.
May all who shall taste them
experience the joy of God
upon their tongues and in their hearts.
We ask God, now, to bless
these your brightly striped sweets
in the name of the Father,
and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

coverFrom Prayers for the Domestic Church: A Handbook for Worship in the Home by Edward Hays, copyright © 1989 (revised) Forest of Peace Publishing. Used by permission. Purchase from amazon.comamazon.ca or amazon.uk.






9. Buy extra holy cards and share them away:)

10.  Imitate St. Nicholas...Do an anonymous act of kindness!


Jessica from Catholic Cuisine is hosting a linky for celebrating St. Nicholas.  Be sure to stop by for more ideas or to share your own:)

Thursday, December 1, 2011

My Joseph

This is my Joseph...
brought to me by Jesus Himself.
Today as I sat before the Lord in Adoration, I felt a stirring in my soul from my Advent reading.  The reflection to ponder talked about simple prayers, even like the opening prayer of Mass today: "Father, we need your help!"   I thought about how often I have prayed a similar prayer in my own life, sometimes daily but especially in time of trouble.  The reflection went on to talk about even Mary needing God's help. I would never have thought about Mary needing help, would you?  Though her unborn child was God within her, she needed the help of St. Joseph.  God provided Mary this great gift.  The point in the reading was that God always provides, even on the toughest of journeys.  The gift of St. Joseph ensured that Mary was not alone;  She was given St. Joseph, just and loyal who stayed close to her, protecting her on their journey.  Surely Mary sang praise to God for St. Joseph!  The stirring in my soul connected to that, a long with the many times that God provided for me in my life, including the gift of my own Joseph in time of need.  Though I'm certainly NO Mary, I do long to be like her in some small way, even if it's just singing praise for my Joseph.  I am witness to God transforming tragedy and sorrow into the richest blessings, including the gift of my Joseph.  I couldn't help but think of my Joseph today, so faithful, strong, and loving.  Like St. Joseph, he stood with me though my first born son was not his biological child.  How kind and gentle he was to make this child his own.  I did not need a new husband to take away the pain from the heat of the refiner's fire, but I did need a Joseph to fulfill God's plan of conversion and hope.  Dear Joseph still stands with me today through all of our brokenness and imperfections, guiding us to the promise of eternal life.  Words of wisdom from my Joseph: "The road to Bethlehem wasn't easy so neither should our own journey be easy."  His words were the perfect tie in to my reflection!  I'm singing praise to God for my Joseph and his words of wisdom.  He may not be a saint but he's pure love to me, surely a gift from God!  Whether our road be bumpy or full of potholes, I pray that we always keep a song of hope in our hearts.  I know God waits for us still today and desires to shower us with blessings through all of our apparent misfortunes and trials. Especially during this first week of Advent, I am looking forward with hope and great expectation to what lies ahead.  May we always remember that the road to Bethlehem wasn't easy but God still arrived.

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