Aside from being one of the most difficult things to sit down and share, I am also struggling through the pain and sorrow of betrayal's aftermath. Never would I have dreamed that this would have happened in my marriage. Yet that's what life's about, isn't it?...You end up in places you least expect. For whatever reason, God put me here to share another struggle, the next cross to bear in life...right here, right now, I share the heartbreaking path of destruction that pornography creates and the havoc it wreaks on marriage and family.
Before I go any further, I'd like to thank any readers, from the bottom of my heart, for any and all prayers that were lifted up on our behalf...Believe me, they have helped!
All of this started after the devastating discovery that my husband was pursuing and desiring another woman outside of our marriage. This emotional affair was exposed upon his return from Ukraine back in December. Not knowing what else to do, I immediately began praying the Novena to Our Lady Undoer of Knots. In the middle of these prayers, the knots came flying loose at a miraculous and record-breaking pace. No joke! Lies were exposed, or should I say "truth" was revealed faster than a speeding bullet. At the same time, the darkness nearly pulled my husband away from our family as it had such a tight grip on his soul. His addiction to fantasy, lust, and sex, was leading him to self-destruction, tempting him to leave his precious, God-given family, for a secret life.
Through it all, the one thing I have never stopped believing is that my husband is a good man and a wonderful father.
The Porn Effect
Fight the New Drug
Your Brain On Porn
Let's do this.
Let's love the things that Jesus loved...
and hate the things that Jesus hated enough to die for.
Only He offers true freedom from the chains that bind us.
The good news is that there is always help and hope, if we so choose.
We are never alone.